a relational approach to
Cognitive and Behavioural Therapies
My therapeutic approach is relational, meaning I prioritize safety, collaboration, and the therapeutic relationship as the foundation for change.
Within that relationship, I practice from evidence-based frameworks including CBT, ERP, ACT, and DBT, integrating them in a thoughtful, flexible way that is responsive to each client rather than protocol-driven.
what does this really mean?
I take time to truly understand each client’s story, experiences, and context before focusing on strategies or interventions. Therapy is not something I do to clients, but something we build together. I work at each client’s pace, with deep respect for their autonomy, strengths, and lived experience.
I aim to offer warmth, respect, and genuine care in the therapy space. I believe healing happens most effectively in relationships where clients feel safe to be fully human — not judged, rushed, or reduced to symptoms. I am also transparent about power dynamics in the therapy room and strive to create a space that feels collaborative rather than hierarchical.
CBT
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ACT
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DBT
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SFBT
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ERP
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CBT · ACT · DBT · SFBT · ERP ·
MODALITIES
My main therapeutic approach is CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy), which helps us understand patterns in thoughts, behaviors, and emotions. CBT is also the foundation for closely related approaches like ERP for OCD and anxiety, as well as ACT and DBT, which build on CBT by focusing on values, acceptance, mindfulness, and emotional regulation. Because these approaches overlap so much, I use them together in a thoughtful way, guided by your goals and what feels most helpful in the moment. I’m also trained in Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), which was the primary approach used during my clinical practicum at Foundry North Shore in 2024 and brings a strengths-based, collaborative focus to goal-setting and forward movement.
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CBT helps us notice patterns in your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that might be keeping anxiety, perfectionism, or self-criticism strong. In sessions, we look at self-critical or unhelpful thoughts, explore where they come from, and practice ways to challenge or reframe them. We also try small experiments in real life to see what works better and build confidence in handling uncomfortable situations. While CBT can include practice outside of sessions, I introduce it slowly and collaboratively, at a pace that feels manageable. My approach is warm and personable — we focus on getting to know your story first so that the tools we use actually fit you and feel helpful, not forced.
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ERP is the gold-standard approach for OCD and can also be very effective for anxiety, especially when avoidance is keeping worries or fears strong. The idea is simple but powerful: we gradually and collaboratively face feared situations or thoughts (the “exposure”) while practicing response prevention — that is, resisting the urge to do rituals, safety behaviors, or avoidance that normally relieve anxiety in the short term. Starting small is key: exposures are manageable, achievable, and designed to build success and confidence over time. The goal is to help you see that you can tolerate discomfort and handle uncertainty. Throughout the process, I support clients in building courage and self-trust, normalizing the discomfort that naturally comes up, and celebrating progress along the way.
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ACT helps us focus on living the life you want, even when anxiety, self-criticism, or uncomfortable thoughts and feelings show up. Life is inherently uncertain and sometimes uncomfortable, and if we live according to our anxiety, our world can shrink. ACT shifts the focus from “I don’t want things to be like this” to “I can accept things as they are and take action where I can, without letting anxiety or negative thoughts control what’s possible for me.” We explore what matters most to you — your values — and use them as a guide for choices and actions. This approach also helps you notice thoughts without getting stuck in them or letting them define who you are. For young people, focusing on values can be particularly powerful, connecting therapy directly to what feels meaningful and motivating in life.
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DBT helps you manage emotions, handle distress, and improve relationships. It’s useful for anxiety, perfectionism, mood challenges, impulse control, and navigating interpersonal situations. Mindfulness skills help you notice thoughts without getting stuck in them or letting them define who you are, while distress tolerance skills are especially helpful for managing discomfort during ERP and other challenging moments. I introduce skills collaboratively, focusing on the areas that feel most relevant to you, and practice them in-session so you can use them confidently in real life. Over time, DBT helps shift old patterns, build healthier ways of responding, and strengthen your connection with yourself and others.
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SFBT is especially helpful when clients feel stuck or unsure about what they want from therapy, or where to begin. Rather than focusing on what’s wrong or going deep into the past, this approach helps us clarify goals, identify what’s already working, and figure out small, meaningful next steps. SFBT is strengths-based, future-focused, and empowering — it supports clients in recognizing their own abilities and progress, even when things feel overwhelming. I use this approach collaboratively, allowing clients to guide the direction of therapy while we explore practical questions like what they’d like to see change, moments when the problem feels less intense, and what life might look like if things were even slightly better. It’s a flexible, respectful way to build momentum without requiring therapy to feel heavy or intense.
WHAT SETS ME APART
I don’t just understand anxiety clinically — I’ve lived it. I’m a recovering high-achieving perfectionist (eldest daughter of an eldest daughter of an eldest daughter… so yes, it tracks).
I know the overthinking, spiraling, stuck-in-your-head feeling firsthand, and that helps me deeply get what my clients are experiencing.
Therapy with me is collaborative, honest, and paced around what actually feels doable for you.
I won’t rush you, fix you, or throw techniques at you — we focus on understanding your anxiety, loosening stuck patterns, and changing how you respond so it has less control.
I specialize in overthinking, rumination, and perfectionism, using CBT, ACT, ERP, and DBT in a flexible, human (not rigid or robotic) way.
The tools matter — but the relationship, safety, and feeling understood matter more.
I’m warm, a little goofy, and I love laughter in session. Memes are welcome.
I’ve identified as an athlete my whole life (I’ve been running trail ultramarathons for the past 4 years), so I get the drive, discipline, and self-expectations that come with it.
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