Therapy for Perfectionism

in North Vancouver

Support for perfectionism, burnout, and self-criticism.

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When high standards stop feeling helpful and start creating anxiety, burnout, procrastination, and self-criticism - therapy can help.

Many people with perfectionism feel pressure to perform, fear making mistakes, and struggle to rest — even when they’re successful.

Perfectionism often looks like motivation on the outside, but inside it can feel like never being good enough.

  • Harsh inner critic and fear of failure

  • Procrastination or avoidance due to pressure

  • Feeling that self-worth depends on performance

  • Difficulty relaxing or enjoying achievements

  • Feeling responsible for holding everything together

❋ Signs perfectionism may be driving your anxiety:

Perfectionism therapy is not about lowering your standards or losing motivation. It’s about building a healthier, more flexible relationship with achievement, mistakes, and self-worth.

HOW DOES PERFECTIONISM THERAPY WORK?

Using evidence-based approaches including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP), our work may focus on:

  • Identifying perfectionistic rules and beliefs

  • Reducing the power of the inner critic

  • Practicing imperfection safely and intentionally

  • Building self-worth beyond productivity and performance

  • Learning to tolerate mistakes, uncertainty, and vulnerability

What to expect?

Therapy is collaborative, practical, and paced to feel challenging but manageable. Many clients notice they:

  • Less anxiety and burnout

  • More follow-through and less avoidance

  • Increased self-compassion without losing ambition

  • A greater sense of freedom and flexibility

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ABOUT ALEXINA

A young woman wearing glasses, a pink blazer, and a white shirt, smiling at the camera.

📍 I’m a Registered Clinical Counsellor in North Vancouver.

🗣️ I work with anxiety, perfectionism, and negative self-talk in kids, teens, and young adults (ages 10–25).

☕️ My approach is warm, collaborative, and humorous.

🧠 I primarily use Cogntive Behaviour Therapy.

📚 I have a Master of Counselling Psychology, where I specialized in school and youth populations.

✨ I completed my clinical practicum at Foundry North Shore.

🤓 I tutored high school math for 10 years.

🏃‍♀️ My sport of choice is trail ultramarathons.

🐶 I have a dog named Chauncey.

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You don’t have to earn rest, worth, or belonging. Therapy can help you keep your strengths while letting go of the pressure that’s been costing you.

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